How To Talk To Your Wife About Sex:

Are you married?  If you are a married man, then there are most likely a whole lot of subjects that you discuss with your wife throughout the day.  Common conversation topics include work, friends, family, and bills.  One topic that a lot of couples do not always discuss, even though they should, is that of sex.  Are you interested in improving your sex life?  If you are, you may need to talk to your wife, but should you?

Yes. You should.  It is important to talk to your wife, especially regarding your sexual relationship.  An open line of communication is most important if you want to have a happy and healthy relationship in general, let alone the sexual side of things.  Poor communication may have a negative impact on your entire relationship, not just your sex life.  Husbands who do not properly communicate with their wives often end up putting their relationships in harms way.  Do not let this happen to you and your marriage.

How to Talk to Your Wife About Sex - It's Important

Talk to Your Wife About Sex

If you do decide to talk to your wife about sex, namely improving your intimacy, it is important to proceed with caution.  You do not want to criticize your wife or make her feel inadequate.  Are you not having your desires filled?  If so, don’t outright tell your wife that.  Doing so may cause even more problems to arise.  You do want to get the best level of intimacy possible, but you also don’t want to hurt your wife’s feelings in the process.  For that reason, you may want to try a different approach. Consider suggesting new things in the bedroom, such as a new position or a weekend away.

When talking to your wife about sex, it is also important not to push.  If you want to see an improvement in your sex, state so and give a few suggestions.  However, do not keep on bringing the topic back up.  Give your wife a few days or even a few weeks to make adjustments in the bedroom.  This time is needed because your wife may be hurt when she learns that you aren’t pleased by her sexually.  It is natural for her to take time to think about the situation before taking action, which may involve implementing a few of your suggestions.

Listen To Your Wife:

Next, it is important to listen to what your wife has to say to you.  Unfortunately, a lot of men make mistake of thinking that their wives are not interested in sex or even being intimate anymore.  Although this might be true in some cases, it likely is not the case with your own wife.  She may experience other problems.  For example, many women are nervous and fearful of aging.

This may result in them wanting to showcase their body less.  A deceased sex drive may also be caused by something out of your wife’s control, such as a medical condition or a medication side effect.  That is why it is not only important to talk to your wife, but also listen to – and actually hear what she has to say.

If you still do not know how to start a conservation about sex and intimacy with your wife, there is another approach that you can take.  You can consider giving her a gift.  There are a number of pretty cool presents you could buy that can not only be helpful in the bedroom, but gifts that can help to get a conversation about your sex life started.  A book on new sexual positions, a new sexy outfit, or massage oils are all items that you may want to examine.

A gift not only provides you with an opportunity to start a conversation, but it is also a nice gesture.  Depending on what you decide to purchase, you may find it easier to shop online.  Many stores are discrete with the intimate packages they send out, and so you would be able to keep your wife’s present a surprise even if she is the one to pickup the mail.

In short, talking to your wife about sex could be something that you want to avoid, but honestly – you should not avoid it.  An open line of communication is vital to a happy and healthy relationship, and a mutually satisfying sex life.

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